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Swinging 101: Welcome to the Swingers Lifestyle!
Whether you’re a newbie or an experienced swinger, we’ll guide your exciting journey into the open lifestyle. Get expert tips on how to talk to your partner about swinging, what you need to know before opening up your relationship, common swinger conflicts and how to resolve them, what to know before you go to a swingers club, how to meet other swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and much, much more!
Newbies in the Lifestyle
Starting your swinging journey can be exciting, but it can also be intimidating. We’ve been there! We’ll help introduce you to the lifestyle and the rules of swinging, swingers etiquette, what to know before you go from monogamy to a swinging relationship, how to navigate swingers clubs and parties, what to do if swinging goes wrong, and how to start exploring threesomes and group sex as a single swinger or as a couple.
Q&A
Do you have questions about swinging, relationships, and sexuality? We have answers! Get advice about popular topics like the swinger lifestyle, hotwifing, open relationships, sexual health tips, and more from our team of experts. Check out our Q&A section below for some recent and popular questions, or ask us your own!
What's the best way to find new playmates?
Should we be using condoms during blowjobs at play parties?
Does a blowjob while wearing a condom suck a little bit? There’s a certain amount of awesome inherent in a blowjob. Does a condom reduce it? Yeah, a little. Does a dental dam detract from the glory that is pussy licking? Yeah, for both parties, a little. Does it keep you from getting diseases that may literally kill you? Yeah, a lot. READ MORE...
How do I become a Bull for a Hotwife?
How can we stay safe and protected during group play?
First things first: you’ll need different kinds of protection for different kinds of threesomes. It may seem obvious, but it bears mentioning: if you’re having an all-female orgy without any strap-ons [...], forget the condoms and load up on dental dams and lube. Though oral sex carries less risk than penetrative sex [...] READ MORE...
What should I do if I start to have feelings for a play partner?
It’s very unrealistic to think that you or your partner won’t have feelings come up at some point — even if you think you’ll be fine going into any given scenario. The trick is addressing them as soon as they come up. Make sure the foundation of communication in your relationship is a safe one: READ MORE...
Swingers Terms Glossary
Think you know everything about swinging? Guess again! Our glossary will go in-depth on terms you thought you knew and teach you words you’ve never heard before. Learn more about swinging, swapping, hotwifing, kink and the sexiest subjects in the lifestyle.
SDC Quizzes
Take one of these easy and fun quizzes developed by our SDC Media team! Discover if you're a jealous partner, what kind of unicorn you are, and more quiz topics coming soon. Plus, you can share your results with your friends and partner(s) to find out how your answers compare. Enjoy!
Take the LIC Quiz
How healthy is YOUR relationship? Take the Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up® (LIC), specially designed by Dr. Jay and Liseth for SDC.com.
Meet Swingers
SDC is the perfect place to meet swingers near you, whether you’re dating online, looking for swingers parties or seeking the hottest swingers clubs in your area.
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Have a sexy date night out and meet other open-minded people at clubs created just for your pleasure. Check out our listings, ratings, and details of swingers and sex clubs around the world.
Sexiest Cities
Where do swingers and open-minded people love to party and hook up? Check out the sexiest cities where swingers can run wild, from popular hotspots like Las Vegas, South Florida, Amsterdam and many more. We feature the hottest swingers and fetish clubs, erotic parties, sex shops, bars, restaurants, festivals and more! You’ll also find exclusive SDC member benefits at our partnering clubs and businesses. Find the perfect places to travel and explore all your deepest desires and fantasies.
Swingers
Explore the lifestyle with our swingers articles, podcasts and videos, created for your edu-tainment! Learn the hottest tips on how to swing from experienced swingers and leading relationship experts.
Let Us Guide You Through the Open Lifestyle!
SDC and our expert contributors and educators from all around the world are here to guide you in everything from how to talk to your partner about swinging and different kinds of open relationships, what you need to know before opening up your relationship, common swinger conflicts and how to resolve them, what to know before you go to a swingers club, how to meet other swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to be a hotwife, and much, much more!