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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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It’s Time to Talk About Lube Shaming
Using lube is normal — and it shouldn't be shameful. Here's why.

How Queer Love and Ethical Non-Monogamy Saved My Life: Margo Renate
Queer love is a savior for many — and so is ethical non-monogamy.

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The Sexiest BNBs to Book Now!
Embrace romance and sexy adventures at these unique BNBs around the world.


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BNB Rules Around the World
We have more vacation rental options than ever before, but the rules and regulations vary widely by type and location. Read on for more worldwide insights.

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Lifestyle Couples: Playtime Inspiration
In the universe of lifestyle couples, where adventure meets intimacy, finding the perfect toys and accessories to enhance playtime is essential, whether you’re playing together as a duo or adding more open couples and lovers to the mix.

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Brooklyn Xrated Curated Fantasies at Grey House Society
If you and/or your partner(s) have sexual, kink, or cosplay fantasies and are wondering where to get them fulfilled... look no further.


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MoAndra Johnson, A Sex Therapist for Millennials to Boomers
There is nothing more exciting than meeting a sex and relationship expert who knows what they say they know!

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VoyeurX: Where Fetish Meets Fashion
Who is the kinky mind behind the luxuriously refined VoyeurX brand and hand-crafted fashions? Learn more in this exclusive interview!


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Three Tips to Start Your ENM Journey
Transitioning your marriage or monogamous relationship to a non-monogamous relationship is one big project, if you will. Here are a few steps to get you started!

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Exploring the Intimate Wellness of Couples' Massage
Couples' massage and workshops offer a unique and intimate way to deepen the bond between you and your partner.

Sharing a High-Value Man in a Polyamorous Hinge Dynamic
Char, Josh, and Liv share what Josh did as the hinge partner to make their poly triad relationship stronger and healthier.


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Types of Polyamorous Relationships
From hierarchical polyamory to non-hierarchical polyamory, from DADT polyamory to Kitchen Table polyamory, and so on, we'll explore the different ways that these dynamics can play out.

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Polybombing: Your Partner Wants to Be Polyamorous
Has your monogamous partner expressed that they are polyamorous or want to practice polyamory? Did this revelation come as a shock to you? If so, you have just been “polybombed.”

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Overcoming Jealousy & Insecurity in Polyamory
Mick, who is part of a polyamorous couple, discusses his various strategies to foster trust, communication, and personal growth in the face of jealousy and insecurity.


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Exploring Spicy Variety in Polyamorous Triads
The sexual chemistry we share in our throuple, strengthened our relationships and resulted in higher satisfaction both in ourselves and each other.

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Commitment Phobia, Modern Dating, and Non-Monogamy
You swipe, match, chat... and then repeat. For a woman, modern dating has become a never-ending loop of potential connections.

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Secrets to Vaginal Wellness in the Swingers Lifestyle
In this episode, Dan & Lacy have a special guest, Dr. Stoehr, a renowned gynecologist passionate about providing unbiased healthcare to individuals in the lifestyle community.


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Real-Life Swinger Stories | Club Eros Pinup Night
In this episode, Dan and Lacy dive into the exciting events that unfolded during their weekend adventure in the Smoky Mountains.

TickleLife: Solutions for Those in the Business of Sex
Shakun Sethi, CEO and Founder of TickleLife and TickleCharge, has created a company and team that assists with THE most important parts of any business — payment processing, gateways, and merchant services.

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When Does Voyeurism Cross the Line?
Dr. Laurie talks about if or when voyeurism and exhibitionism cross the line.


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The Pressures Men Face
Dr. Laurie and Johnny Elsasser, host of The Art of Masculinity podcast, talk about men and body image, masculinity, and more.

Perfecting Masturbation
Dr. Laurie discusses perfecting masturbation with Global Sexuality Speaker & Sex Columnist Niki Davis-Fainbloom.

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What Counts as Cheating?
Dr. Laurie discusses what counts as cheating.